did you ever read “lolita”?
you know how humbert humbert is obsessed with a young girl because he lost his childhood sweetheart when he was a young man??? yes, the man is sick in the head to be molesting a young girl, but i don’t know about you, nabokov manages to lyrically maneuver your heart as a reader to emphasize with this character.
lately, i’m starting to understand the appeal of youth (not underage or even 21-year-old, mind you!!!). i got my first kiss at 26 with a guy who was a year younger than me. up to that point in my life, i had only crushes up the wazoo for many years, but never was allowed or able to date before then, so i am eternally stuck in the wanting of someone young at least physically.
i myself am 34, but being asian and also taking good care of myself, i look about 28 with a libido of a 18-year-old boy. 
so while i want to date men around my age for maturity levels and readiness to commit to a long-term relationship, i am physically attracted to men in their mid- to late 20s, a youthful face and body.
i’m physically attracted to guys whose face still has a boyish charm. if you look deeply into their faces, you can almost imagine what they looked like when they were younger. maybe it’s my womb trying to figure out if we’d have cute babies together, i have not a clue, but i like when a man ages well. i mean i look at brad pitt and for a man in his mid 40’s, he is HOT, HOT, HOT. he can pass off as someone in his late 30’s. i need a guy who ages well with a lot of energy for life and fucking amazing sex. i can’t be with someone who needs viagra to get it up or someone who is ready to wear mr. roger sweaters and call it a day on life’s many adventures. i need a guy with a younger face, so i can feel like i myself am not ready to retire from life let alone dating.
i feel like i unfortunately started very late in the game of dating, and i’m being penalized for having a father who had me benched for far longer than i really should have been, and now the other kids don’t want to play with the strange, home-schooled weirdo on the field. and yet, i still have a lot of skills and energy and can probably kick some royal ass out there on the field…if someone would just pick me!?.
i know what my heartstrings pop for, i know what my pussy juices up for, i know what my mind yearns for, someone around my age who has the wisdom and romantic sensibility of an older gentleman with the fortunate genetics that has kept him younger-looking and running like a brand-new engine for a very long, long, long time.
makes me wish i could settle for an older guy for the companionship and find a few younger guys for the hot, mouth-watering sex?! ugh, if only my pussy wasn’t so connected to my heart and mind, life would be OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOh so fine! i accept the fact that someday i will be older and my partner will reflect that age, but right now, i feel like i’m still really young age-wise, but even younger when it comes to dating, so i still deserve to have a fairytale of meeting a young prince and not having to settle for an old king…just yet.
6 Comments
November 10, 2009 at 4:59 pm
No worries, my wife is 47, I’m 33 lol, it’s not too terribly far fetched of an idea to get a younger guy…seems to be a trend lately anyways
One of her friends calls her a pedophile, I tease her sometimes too, but it’s all in good fun hehe.
November 11, 2009 at 7:53 am
good to know, there are younger men who like older women out there—-ummm, what can i say we know how to rock your worlds!!! ;p
November 12, 2009 at 9:37 am
You and I are attending a con sometime. Geeks are good catches, and they’ll worship you.
November 12, 2009 at 2:15 pm
sounds like a plan!!!
geek love!!!
November 16, 2009 at 7:06 pm
My boyfriend is a year younger than me. It doesn’t seem like much, but most guys as little as a year older than me seem so much more world-weary. Maybe they are showcasing their experience.
I totally understand the appeal of the youthful mind. Wisdom is admirable, but you can’t help but fall in love with enthusiastic.
November 17, 2009 at 5:50 am
i will accept that in my 80s, i’m going to be wrinkly and ugly, but i’m 34 and asian, i look like i’m 27 and have the youthful spirit of a girl in her early 20s, so i just feel like i want someone who is around my age and looks youthful, too, as silly as that sounds.
i’m very glad you agree.