why can’t guys just be honest?!
if you like me, you like me. if you don’t, just tell me you aren’t interested. why do you have to go completely silent like a fucking asshole?!
i once heard that guys would rather chop off their right arm than break up with someone in person or tell a girl the truth. we, girls aren’t that fragile. you’re not going to crush my world to pieces, so i can’t go on with my life. you don’t have that much power over someone, and if you seriously think you do, you’ve got other problems to worry about.
you ask me, why do i even care? it’s the principle of it. i’m human like anybody else, and it’d just be nice to be acknowledged as a person who deserves common courtesy, if we’ve met and had a nice date, shared a friendship, and especially if we’ve kissed or fucked. what causes you to ignore my e-mail or call and go completely silent with no explanation at all?
just tell the girl the truth in as kind of a way as you can, even if that means you bring out the corny, “it’s not you, it’s me.” just simply say, “i enjoyed the time we’ve spent, but i just don’t think this is working out. thank you. i wish you all the best.” jeezus! is it really that hard???
i can’t say it’s fun to hurt someone’s feelings, but in the long run, it’s better to just tell them the truth than to ignore them altogether like they’ve got some kind of contagious disease or aren’t worth a few uncomfortable moments to bear. it’s just the decent thing to do. i’ve had to let some guys down, but i try to do it immediately, so they don’t have to worry or wonder about things. maybe that’s just me?! karma’s a bitch, so i don’t want to screw with her.
the only sweet guy who had the balls (yummy balls to lick) to actually break up with me in person was my ex-, andy. he told me how he was feeling, and when i wept, he also cried with me, showing me that the break-up was actually hard on him, too. i asked him to stay with me the night, just to hold me cuz my heart was breaking…and he did. if guys could be even a fraction of the kind of man andy is, the world of dating would be such a sweeter place.
i mean this doesn’t only go for the boys, girls should be honest, too. i just think that we, girls in general have been taught to express our emotions and feelings more openly than boys, so i want to remind men to stop being such punkass wusses. don’t confuse the girl by going silent!
yeah! yeah! yeah! i know “he wasn’t that into you” excuse, but fuck you, that doesn’t give you the excuse to keep ignoring the girl!!! grow some real balls and be a compassionate person first and foremost!!! hearts shouldn’t be handled carelessly!!!
