ok, so we all know guys ejaculate…it’s kind of a given. although i did hear from a guy friend that a guy can orgasm without ejaculating, but haven’t been with anyone personally who hasn’t ejaculated yet? i’m not sure why one would?
but female ejaculation is a whole different story…i can’t tell you how it happens or even when it actually happens, but sometimes after a really hot session of mad, crazy sex, there’s this wetness all over my mattress that is clear like water, doesn’t actually even have a smell, and i’ve had to change bed sheets in between fucking and cuddling with my partner…kind of embarrassing, but i usually tell the guy, “this doesn’t happen to me every time, so just know you’re very good at what you do!” most guys are pretty amazed and want to figure out how to do it again and again, but alas, i can’t tell you the secret cuz i personally don’t know how it happens.
the first time it happened, i actually thought my lover had wet the bed or that i myself had wet the bed without even knowing it. i was soooooooooooooooooo confused and embarrassed to ask anyone about it, so we never mentioned it again. it didn’t happen again until i was with my second lover who told me that i probably ejaculated. i was a little shocked, embarrassed and kind of intrigued, thinking to myself, “wow, who knew women could ejaculate?!” it happened enough times with my second lover that i actually had to get a special covering for my mattress, explaining that i didn’t like getting too much sweat on my bed to any girlfriends who slept over and wondered why there was this plastic covering under my bed sheets. ;p then it only happened again with two other lovers, but never every time we fucked. i sort of wish i had taken notes to figure out if it was the rhythm, the size of the penis, clitoral or g-spot orgasms, certain positions, or speeds, but alas, i wasn’t that concerned whether it happened or not…actually i could never tell if i had a better orgasm when it did happen because i didn’t know it was actually even happening…i only realized after the fact when i had to change the sheets yet again!
i don’t think squirting love juices actually affects or relates to my orgasms, since my OOOOOs are a whole other blog altogether, but i’d be curious to hear what other girls’ experiences are or guys’ experiences and reactions are…is it hot? i just went to google “female ejaculation” and came up with thousands of porn sites where one can see porn stars squirting up a storm (excuse the pun), but i’d rather hear about the experiences of everyday janes and jacks, please. enjoy!
5 Comments
December 7, 2007 at 12:57 pm
Well, I can say as a guy that it’s hot because it’s a visual confirmation that you’ve really enjoyed yourself or what we’re doing with you. This strokes our ego and self-confidence. Not to mention, that when ejaculation for you occurs it is usually accompanied by a much louder, more active you which also makes us feel good about ourselves.
March 18, 2008 at 12:25 am
I’ve never been able to get a woman to actually squirt right out of her vagina, but I do often stimulate the g-spot of my lovers with my finger before we have sex, and this almost always makes them have the really wet type of orgasm you describe above.
It seems to make them pretty happy, so I guess I’m doing something right
May 19, 2009 at 6:28 pm
Hey,
yeah I just found out that i started doing this too! and it wasn’t even during intercourse. My lover was just fingering me in his car and I started squirting. Not heavy duty like a porn star, but i suddenly felt his seat covers (i’m very glad he wanted new ones anyways) getting really wet. And he got all excited and started rubbing my clit and g-spot and i saw myself squirting. It’s the weirdest thing! I never knew I could! But like you said, it hasn’t made any difference in the orgasms, and it doesn’t happen every time.
November 10, 2009 at 4:50 pm
Squirting is something that i believe most women can do with the right lover and enough time and attention.
i have always been a squirter with attentive lovers, and with extended play that involves both high arousal and massaging the g-spot. i was described once as a diesel truck. i am a slow warm up, but once i am going, it is a marathon. (i seriously dislike quickies. i prefer at minimum an hour, preferably several, to play)
i am not a vaginal orgasm kind of girl. i need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, though, and some men find this is offensive – like they are not good enough with their cocks. They don’t understand it’s not the sex that’s bad, i’m just wired differently.
my orgasms are without a doubt better when i am at squirting level, which also usually means i am at multi-orgasmic level too. (yummm-Os)
November 11, 2009 at 7:51 am
i second that!!! here’s wishing you many yummi-O’s!!!