why do men really lust after breasts, tits, boobs? is it their want to return to the womb? is it porn? media-driven? do big boobs equate better sex? i’m not a guy, so i don’t know???
i shouldn’t complain cuz i am one of the luckier girls who happen to have size 36C/sometimes borderline D breasts, but guess what? i hated having relatively big breasts for most of my life until only a few years ago. they hurt when i ran and played sports. god, you think finding a regular bra is tough, try to find an exercise bra that doesn’t hurt, leave welts, or suffocate you or give you no support at all. not only that, but growing up, i’d get catcalls from grown men, so i’d slump around and wear big sweaters that made me look like a whale, just so no one would notice. really great on a girl’s self-esteem?!…not!
it was only when i started dating and having sex that i was happy to have ample breasts. one of my favorite things in bed is to have my nipples sucked on and nibbled gently, amazingly great foreplay…gets me wet everytime.
it’s funny, i used to think i had way too big nipples. they didn’t look like the small corks on the supermodels i had seen. instead, they were much bigger, so i felt like such a freak. so one day, i asked my mom if my nipples were weird-looking, and after taking one look at them, she said, “no, they’re very nice like those women in the playboy magazines.” i wasn’t sure what disturbed me more, the fact that my tits looked like the women in the playboy magazines or that my mom had even looked through a playboy magazine?
it took the look on my first boyfriend’s face when he saw me naked for the first time to make me realize that my breasts were indeed great assets. he took a deep sigh of awe and said, “they are so beautiful.” i never looked back since, and there hasn’t been a guy yet who didn’t want to just play with them, suck, lick, rub their dicks in between them and ejaculate on them…all wonderful fun!!!
but it got me thinking and feeling sorry for those girls who don’t have big breasts. what’s the deal? i wish the world wasn’t so breasts-obsessed! i understand when women who have just had mastectomies opt to have breast reconstruction surgery, but what about all those other women who get implants (some that leak or misshapen) because they are so unhappy with the size they were born with? i’m all for finding ways to achieve better self-esteem, but we need to somehow embrace our differences and love who we are on the inside and out, no matter what our bra size may be.
i’m happy to have my ample breasts, but i’d give them up without any hesitation, if it would allow my smaller breasted sisters to feel more self-confident and sexy about themselves!!! don’t be a boob, you are so much more than that!!! love the person you are and own it!!!
We are born that way!!
i know exactly where you’re coming from! 36C here as well, absolutely hated them til they started getting me free stuff
and MAN has some of that free stuff been nice!
I love mine. Probably the favorite part of my body.
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I liked very much your post (I probably should say ‘thank you’ for it).
But you know, if you were in someone else’s place, your think wouldn’t be the same. Just because you feel ok when you make love doesn’t mean you’d feel the same if you didn’t have big breast. Don’t take it personally, please. It’s all about the pression coming from the media, the ideea that a beautiful woman must have 90-60-90 (especially 90…).
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Do girls lice other girls butts
i don’t think you meant to write “lice”—so not sure if you’re asking whether girls “like” or “lick” other girls’ butts? i do admire other girls’ butts, especially nice bubbly ones (not too big, but not too flat either)…tee hee. i think if you’re a lesbian, girls might enjoy licking each other’s butts. hope that answers your question. :p